How strong is your foundation?

You were meant to be a great construction too... How strong is your foundation?
 
What is your foundation? How do you strengthen it?
 
Your foundation is your mind. It is your greatest asset and the only consistent building block you have that everything in your life filters through.
So? How strong is your foundation?
 
How do you protect your mind? From influence of others, or from overwhelming feelings?
 
How do your actively repair your mind when a thought or common reaction is no longer working to your benefit?
 
How do you ensure that you are maintaining the integrity of your foundation and that others aren't compromising it with their agendas or influence?
 
If you want to build a great life for yourself, it starts in your mind.
 
No one will help you to build your great life because great to them means something different than it does to you. Be true to yourself in every choice!
 
If you do not build your great life someone else will build their version of life for you. Life will simply happen to you because you are swayed here and there by whoever you leave in charge, or responsible for dictating your choices. Your life will not be great, you will not be happy... you are not living your own great life.
 
Protect your foundation with complete discretion. Take pride in the foundation that you will build your life on. Use your feelings to help you to learn about how you most want to live your life. Allow them to be a filter for your thoughts:
 
"Wow, that made me really mad, what can I do differently to make sure that doesn't happen again or if it must happen, to make sure I don't allow myself to be surprised and so hurt by it?"
 
"Why did I react so defensively? I care about this person? My reaction did the opposite of showing care, it made things worse. How can I react next time to remember the care I feel is more important than my need to defend myself?"
 
Feelings are great tools to build and shape your life. Partner your feelings with your rational thinking brain and it will become a strong foundation for building your authentic life!
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